Friday, November 20, 2009 @ 23:35
I wonder why some people have communication breakdown while some don't. There is this urge of me to find out from different people. I want to know why some people have endless topic even if there don't have anything in common whereas some don't ; totally nothing to say or any topic to start off with.For couples especially,Young couples are so full of energy that you can actually see them talking non-stop over anything. Some can even meet daily just to share what's happening even if it may sounds boring, but their partner might find it fascinating to them. Who knows. No one can predict anything. But sometimes, things doesn't turn out the way it is. Maybe being naive and young is better?Most Married couples communicating styles involves kids if there have if not they hardly have time to sit down to chat as there are either too busy nor tired to even start a topic. So it require both efforts. If not their relationships will be drained. Moreover, most people believe that marriage = tomb of love. There is only responsibilities whereby most of it will lead to divorce as there is no more sparks or interaction nor any communication left between them. Why? Sometimes, i do envy couples that can communicate very well. What's the secret to maintain a good communication? How to have endless topic? But i do believe it need 2person's effort to maintain. Anyone wanna share their views? Comment me.
